Well ε, at first we thought we weren't going to tell anyone this weekend about you.  We had an elaborate plan to announce this on Mother's day, but after hearing the bad news we were considering just keeping the news to ourselves.  I've been pretty blue this weekend thinking about you.  We needed a positive boost.  So, we decided to tell my family over the webcam so we could see their faces  and they could see your scan (we just obmitted the worrisome bits).  I wanted to have a happy smiling like idiots conversation like we did with Mark's mom.  So that's what we did.  I'm glad we did, I do feel better for saying it out loud.